There’s vision and then there’s intuition. Be sure to use em both. #love #lust #life #graffitiart

Ha! Understood. #love #lust #life #lessons

For those who like to get straight to the pizzoint lol #love #lust #myhornyvalentine

We’d like to think this is a prerequisite before venturing into the #love arena

And now, the power hug. #JayZWonTheBeyonceBowl#love #beyhive #watchthethrone

Uncircumhigh: Confessions From Women Who Dig Their Ds With Foreskin

Take the dick and get over it. It feels good, just doesn’t look good…

Two Friday evenings ago over some damn good wine, a friend of mine shared a story about how she finally got down to unbuckling her dream man’s, greedily at that. But when she finally tugged off those boxers, she had to choke back horror when his dick popped to attention donning a headscarf. She froze up and made up some sh-t about getting her period. Sigh. Deep in her pretty little soul, she almost believed this thing would lurch at her face, swallowing her alive. Which sounds like an ill time to me, but I digress.

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VLOG PSA! 3 Assumptions That He Wishes You’d STOP Making!

My guy friends often complain that ladies always think a guy can read their mind. I agree. I’m very big on being direct. Well, usually I am but this summer I got caught out there crushing on a potential cuff. I stubbornly didn’t want to initiate the “what’s up with you and me” convo and expected my flirting efforts to be good enough for him to know what the deal was.

Not the case at all. Luckily my boy Jamar was there to chat it up with me and share some insight. Thought I’d continue the convo on camera for all of you ladies who risk the chance of experiencing this little dating hiccup like me. lol

Check out my newest vlog: 3 Assumptions That He Wishes You’d Stop Making.  Smh. Don’t be a victim. Watch the clip friends 

Lessons From Ocho: 3 Desperate Apology Moves You Should Probably Ignore

Chad OchoCinco is a curious case. Obviously, the man got the blues. After losing his job, his lady, and the security of a lucrative future the only thing this man needs to complete his one-man pity party is a harmonica and a pet gray cloud. As if his display wasn’t sore enough, in an act of mourning, or perhaps reconciliation (again, a curious case) the man with the iron clad forehead recently tattooed quite the ghastly gesture on his leg, a portrait of former wifey, Evelyn Lozada…POST divorce… Interesting…

*serious side-eye*

So much to say here. So, so, so much. I too am forced to rub my forehead in response to this man’s behavior. However, even in the rubble of confusion that epitomizes this man’s life and recent actions, one thing certain prevails: He’s sowwy  Kinda makes you wanna curl that bottom lip huh? But is an apology, or even being sorry enough? Guess that question can only be answered by the Juliet being serenaded to. What can be answered for however, are the reachy apologies that we should all ignore, or at least stand hella stoic on until its double packaged with some serious change. Feel me?

So yeah, let’s start with the obvious:

1. A Calf Muscle Tat

Although I’m sure a high level of  investment went into the homage inked on the man’s leg, it’s seems to be lacking the most important part of an apology –emotional investment. Like I’m sure it hurt, and he did it because he felt bad, but does it deliver a promise of sincere change? Negativo. Typically chicks usually go gaga over grand gestures…

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Is It A-Okay For Kanye To Dress Kim? Most Men say Hell Yeah…

If you’ve been following the two-headed monster known as Kim-Ye down lovers lane, then you probably saw this interesting scene from the latest epi of Keeping Up With The Kardashians:

Maybe it’s because I’m not feeling Kim’s monochromatic blah-on-blah look all too much. It most certainly doesn’t scream ‘Let’s make a sextape tonight, Yeezy!’ which is great I guess, but it also doesn’t really feel organic around those hips either. Or maybe it’s because I think Kanye’s a label-munching megalomaniac and feel like Kim’s only enabling his control disease. Or maybe, me and her and her and her and her and her are just over-exercising our right to over-think?

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Conceited Girl Syndrome Special: 5 Fails When Posting Girls Night Out Pics

It happens all the time. Somebody posts quite frankly a shitty pic of you. Or a group shot of a team of lovelies pops on the feed. Of course the one who posted it looks phenomenal, strategically. After taking a tighter glance you start to notice the friends, the outfits, the hair, the all around glam until it happens –BAM someone got caught with the lazy eye, or the food stain, or worse the ugly face. Yikes!  And now your glam shot has been turned into a damn shot, as in Damn, what’s up with that one?

Yet another symptom of Conceited Girl Syndrome; posting pics of yourself where you look amazing, but your girls… Not their finest hour. It happens all the time. Looking good? Post. But real friends scan. Critically. Why? I can go on for days and nights about the power of a strong crew of female friends and get super sister souljah on the matter, but nah, I’ll spare you the lunch break. Just check out these 5 rules for posting girls night out shots, and feel free to forward this blog to a friend that accidently violates. Knowledge is power:

1. Pics Where Her Tummy Is Doing That Swollen Thing

Now let’s not get touchy, some of us are just naturally juicier than others. And if that’s the frame we’re working with at the the time of the picture flash, than it’s all good. I’m talking about the times when some of us are looking abnormally larger than we have to. Maybe the delayed flash caught our exhaled gut as opposed to the intended inhale gut. Idk. Nobody’s fault (except maybe the impatient shooter that was naive enough to believe that when ladies ask, “Do you mind taking a picture of us?” it actually means one shot). In any event, these pictures are better off being posted in the album of personal memories. Note.

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